There is not a single person reading this who can say they’ve never had a relationship problem — unless they’re under the age of 10. And that’s probably why there are a slew of books on the topic, ranging from finding long-term love to the how-tos of hooking up. Over the years, we have learned that he’s just not that into us. We have learned that it’s completely acceptable to do the walk of shame from time to time. We’ve learned that eating an entire tub of chocolate chip cookie dough is not exactly the best way to get over a breakup.
So what new romantic advice does actress Jennifer Love Hewitt have to offer in her recent book “The Day I Shot Cupid: Hello, My Name is Jennifer Love Hewitt and I’m a Love-aholic?” Well, despite the absolutely ridiculous and lengthy title, J. Love proves she actually might have a thing or two to share with women (and men) about the ins and outs of dating.
“The Day I Shot Cupid” is Hewitt’s attempt to explain the intricate and complicated relationships between men and women by sharing her own experiences and the lessons she’s learned through her very public dating life. The book is divided into short, easy chapters, ranging from the basic differences in men and women to how to deal with a breakup. There are also some guest excerpts from her personal trainer and Jamie Kennedy, an ex with whom the new author obviously has remained friendly. Kennedy’s wisdom and wit is, surprisingly, one of the gems of the book, along with the final chapter of “Fun Little Extras” (i.e., “Five Things you Should NOT Say On a Date”).
While some of the transitions between chapters are a little choppy, the book is a fun and quick read. It’s hard not to respect Hewitt after reading it because, after all, the girl had her cellulite plastered across magazines everywhere and still had the nerve to keep pushing on. And that’s kind of where Hewitt gets her footing as an author. Though this book is about dating, and it primarily focuses on that topic, she is big on building self-confidence.
Her voice here is very real, and though she doesn’t really offer much in terms of brand-new relationship advice, what she offers in terms of building self-esteem is empowering to the female reader. Being comfortable in your own skin makes it that much easier to be comfortable around someone else, so in this respect, Hewitt might just be onto something. The fact that she has been through a failed engagement and public embarrassment makes it easy to believe her as well.
It’s obvious that Hewitt isn’t looking to win any awards for her writing skills, but she’s definitely got a better feel for this industry than she does for the music business (“Barenaked,” anyone?). No matter where a person is in their romantic life, even if they’ve got it all figured out, there’s something for nearly everyone to enjoy here. Because really, what other serious author would have the guts to dedicate a chapter to skid marks (and no, we aren’t talking the kind on the road)?
Rating: W W W
